I sometimes feel jealous of kids who enjoy a full three-month summer vacation. As an adult, the idea of a mid-year break to reset before a new season or chapter feels like an impossible dream. Yet, I believe that we are the exact demographic who stands to benefit most from this type of extended break.
Summer often signals a shift in the real estate market. In Denver, the heat rises, and most people head for the mountains in search of cooler weather. Properties linger longer on the market creating a prime window of opportunity for buyers. It is true that real estate is often 7 days a week, but I have never accepted this as the default. Clear parameters around my availability or “work hours” allows me to be fully present when I AM with my clients.
But this note is not about market data, interest rates or levels of inventory. I am sure you are disappointed – just kidding :)
Instead, I wish to pose a question. Whether it is a long weekend, one week or even a full month, can you give yourself permission this summer to take a breather from work? As you consider this, what thoughts pop up immediately? What are the limiting beliefs that show up like annoying voices in your head, prohibiting you from taking a well-deserved rest? Can you question whether these thoughts are based in reality? Although I have lived in America for almost 30 years, I refuse to subscribe to the so called “American work ethic.” I believe in working hard, but I also believe in relaxing equally hard!
I would really appreciate if you would indulge me with just trying this on as an exercise and let me know what transpires for you. Let’s change our mindset around busy-ness and working to the point of emptying ourselves. The best opportunities lie in the space that opens when you release fully and completely. Do not be afraid to radiate from this newfound space that you create by letting go. It is time to change the conversation.
